Comments on: Men Fake Foreplay http://www.daytoncitypaper.com/men-fake-foreplay/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=men-fake-foreplay Miami Valley's Arts, Culture & News Weekly Tue, 21 May 2013 06:51:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: jsavage http://www.daytoncitypaper.com/men-fake-foreplay/comment-page-1/#comment-594 jsavage Sat, 12 Jun 2010 17:26:31 +0000 http://www.daytoncitypaper.com/?p=158#comment-594 Sirs, I believe most relationships are complex at best. I'm not sure exactly what either person expects from any relationship, besides the natural draw, and need for sex. Let's face it, both sexes have been programmed. Today the focus seems to be centered on the female, whereas I believe it had been centered on the male. Things change, and times change. From my own experiences, my marriage relationship was one-sided, and based on lies. She wasn't honest with me, or herself. And there must be love from both sides, or it doesn't work. Today, I wonder if the institution of marriage needs to exist. The female seems to be responding to her own natural needs first, and always. I've wondered if either person, male or female can truly step outside their own sex, and seek a relationship for it's own sake? Not for want of sex, or children, or because of anything else, just the relationship in itself. And let's get real, nothing here is forever. We change, life changes. Relationships change, and we do become attracted to other people. I've found myself, being attracted to much younger females. They seem to have this natural energy, that women seem to loose as they get older. I seem to be attracted to this for whatever, seemingly natural reason. If I acted upon this I'd be called a dirty old man. There truly are other things going on than what society accepts as normal. It seems we as of yet, don't really know what these things are. We say one has cheated if one is married and acts upon one's natural programming. I wonder when society and our natural instincts will become the same, though it could be greatly debated what's natural programming, and simply something else. I've been looking and searching somewhat, for that one person who wants to find out exactly who and what I am first, before any relationship begins. So far, it's been just wham, bam, see ya from any passing in the night, as it were. So, I am assuming we all generally will have to advance a bit more before, it's any more than me first, or so it seems, and has been so far, for me. Then again, I seem to have the worst choice in someone else. I haven't figured out why that is, so far. I believe there must be other elements at work here. I've generally come to accept that there is alot more going on than we human beings with our limited intellects understand. You ever notice how any relationship seems like a train out of control, and you're just along for the ride? Oh well, such is life, eh! JSavage be Sirs, I believe most relationships are complex at best. I’m not sure exactly what either person expects from any relationship, besides the natural draw, and need for sex. Let’s face it, both sexes have been programmed. Today the focus seems to be centered on the female, whereas I believe it had been centered on the male. Things change, and times change. From my own experiences, my marriage relationship was one-sided, and based on lies. She wasn’t honest with me, or herself. And there must be love from both sides, or it doesn’t work. Today, I wonder if the institution of marriage needs to exist. The female seems to be responding to her own natural needs first, and always. I’ve wondered if either person, male or female can truly step outside their own sex, and seek a relationship for it’s own sake? Not for want of sex, or children, or because of anything else, just the relationship in itself. And let’s get real, nothing here is forever. We change, life changes.
Relationships change, and we do become attracted to other people. I’ve found myself, being attracted to much younger females. They seem to have this natural energy, that women seem to loose as they get older. I seem to be attracted to this for whatever, seemingly natural reason. If I acted upon this I’d be called a dirty old man. There truly are other things going on than what society accepts as normal. It seems we as of yet, don’t really know
what these things are. We say one has cheated if one is married and acts upon one’s natural programming. I wonder when society and our natural instincts will become the same, though it could be greatly debated what’s natural programming, and simply something else. I’ve been looking and searching somewhat, for that one person who wants to find out exactly who and what I am first, before any relationship begins. So far, it’s been just wham, bam, see ya from any passing in the night, as it were. So, I am assuming we all generally will have to advance a bit more before, it’s any more than me first, or so it seems, and has been so far, for me. Then again, I seem to have the worst choice in someone else. I haven’t figured out why that is, so far. I believe there must be other elements at work here. I’ve generally come to accept that there is alot more going on than we human beings with our limited intellects understand. You ever notice how any relationship seems like a train out of control, and you’re just along for the ride? Oh well, such is life, eh! JSavage

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